Why don't you lead the way

It is Monday evening..early Tuesday morning and my weekend has been one of remeberance. I asked myself during this time of being with my daughter and my wife. Is this what you want? I replyed yes. I think I would need to be crazy not to. But as in my time with my wife I realized there are still some undealt things in her life as there are in mine. Can God heal those things? I believe he can. I also believe that he can do even more than I know. Do I trust? I do trust in him. I know myself and I know that I need to be cautious that I might not hurt my daughter in this process. I love her dearly and nothing will ever be good or come to good if it results in her damage. So I am making choices with the guidence of the Bible. With the word of God and prayer and I am looking for the strength in God to deal with these things because I cannot deal with them. I feel free and I feel my prayers have been answered now I feel God saying. Okay Now how about you? What are you going to do now. I simply say Okay God I'm with you why don't you lead the way and I'll follow behind you. The last time I fouled things up pretty bad. :)